Sunday, 21 December 2008

Friends Part I

Hello Friends,

This time I am going to share something with you which happened quite a few times in my life.

Defining friends is the toughest thing in the world. No one can ever, have defined friendship or


defined how an ideal friend should be? In other words, what particular qualities a person must


have to make him or her your friends. People are really lucky who have best friends in their life


where they tend to share everything of each other's life irrespective of being good or bad.


Sharing good things makes life more better place to live in, where they share their joys. But,


friends also share sorrows. These sorrows can sometime be so bitter to digest that a person can


sometimes have a breakdown if not because of friends. If a person has a friend, he or she can


share the sorrow and can tackle the problem and come up with a nice solution. There is a saying


as " Joys multiply when shared and Sorrows divide when shared".


I will try to explain how a normal person finds a friend. Actually speaking, you don't find a friend.


A friend is not a person whom you find somewhere. And, it is not necessary, that friend should


always be of your age. A friend can be someone elder to you, younger to you, your brother, your


sister, your uncle, your aunt, your parents and even your grandparents for that matter. You will


always tend to hear that, always be best friends with your parents as they can never mislead


you anywhere in life. They have introduced you in this world with a objective that you should


be happy and successful in life. Same goes with your grandparents. They have a lot of


experience with them, more than our parents. But usually, people don't make best friends with


their parents or grandparents as they think that they are old cultured or may be sometimes


narrow minded in some cases, you can call it an age gap. You will find a large group where


people make friends of similar age. The reason being, the wave length of the similar age group


people matches oftenly and they have similar interest and disinterest. Friends in life is as


important as a backbone for a human body. If you don't have many friends, I assure you that


you're missing a wonderful thing in life.


But I can assure you, friendship is incomplete if you dont have some problem in your friendship


sometime in the journey. I am telling you this because I am sure, the people who are reading


this, if by any chance had some problems or going through some problem might have realised or


are realising, knows the value of true friendship. It is very important to know the true value of

freindship.


I am sorry for the incomplete ending. But if you guys have noted, this is just part 1 of my


chapter..... You see friendship can't be explained in just 1 chapter.......


So wait and watch for my next blog.....




Thanks for reading!!!



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