This was the special day in my whole family when i was born. Since, i was the first child in the family... i was a favorite to all. And it's really amazing that this special day comes in every one's life and this day remains till the day we die!!!! But after coming to this world, does everyone knows for what purpose they have been introduced to this "unfair" world??? There are very few people who really know what life actually is. These people are not seen in any social gathering or you can't see them in any place where they would think that it's a waste of time. I had some friends who had a similar nature. Whenever I used to think about them, i used to always tell others.."what a waste of life" . As then, i used to do a lot of social parties, meeting new people, going new places. But all this things wasn't my hobby or it wasn't what I wanted to do... I was looking for my purpose in my life. As i wasn't lucky like my few friends who exactly knew what they wanted to be in life. I was wasting my time in knowing the real purpose of my life. I was meeting new people so that i can get real friends. Friends are those people whom u blindly accept n whom u believe as a part in your life. I don't want to divert my topic about friendship. I will surely discuss this topic in more detail. But talking again about life and it's purpose.... As I said, i used to go places, places as in not different states or different countries, but locally, i never used to go to a place where i have been before as i had my own belief that you will always find same people in the same place. So, this thinking made me to go to different places. Later I realised, its a waste of time to search for some place that you dream of, we have to create or make a place around us that we dream of. So, i always tried to make a better place around me. As i am a person who accepts all kinds of feelings. love, hatred, pity n all the feelings you see in the dictionary. But I only accept it when it is shown or told me on my face. I dont like to know from other's that how you feel about me.
With all this, I started to live my life in my way, trying to move towards my goal. Though my goal still wasn't clear... but i was tryin different things as a trial n error basis.
continued later.......
18 comments:
keep it up..i never knew u r experiencing life so closely...
if you have seen life..or are trying to see life so closely..why do u call it "unfair" ?? it was your decision to be a part of this world in the very first place..the day you were born.. exploring life is great..and finding out the purpose even more exhilarating..but negative adjectives do not go with it.. rather should not. that is what i feel.
and you write well.
i call it unfair not coz im negative, coz sumtimes i had a unfair exp wid life. ur lucky dat u find life fair enuf to live. but im sure there are many whose life has been unfair all times. n thanks for commenting and for complimenting me!!!
cheers
i did not say u r negative.. just that if you are out to experience the aim of your life then don't include negativity into it.. it will just not help you grow. you know that well too by now..i am sure..and your welcome! take care.
if u read my last two lines, u will know that now my life has no negativity. im exploring each n every bit of my life by trail n error basis. for me, this is sumthing positive. and ya, i knw how does a person grows wid experience. take care
Hey Nikhil,
U write really well, I least expected you to do so. Well every person at some point feels that life has been very unfair to them. Especially, when you are going through a tough phase of your life but again you never thank God for those wonderful moments that you had.But that is life and human tendency you see. Life is a mixture of both positive and negative things. Coming out of those negative /unfair moments of your life successfully will make you realize how strong you are.
Well looking foirward to read more of it...All the best.
I believe GOD gives everyone a chance to explore his or her life..Well,it depends on the decission one takes in this journey that makes your life FAIR or UNFAIR.But I must tell you one thing that i never knew that you r a gr8 PHILOSOPHER......
life is not UNFAIR all d times..aftr evry sunset der's a sunrise too....evry 1's life is planned wid equal happpiness n sorrows...dat is only we,how we take our life...u r born definitely wid some purpose..it is u who hav to recognize is it as erly as possble...d life may b unfair till dat day....trial n error is not only urs but evry1s lifes formula...u find it n u suceed...LIFE IS UNFAIR till U THINK
there is nothing fair ,unfair,negetive positive.....its nature just decisions and consecuent actions...nothing is just....but nature give the best of best decisions....the best could be said " what goes around comes around "....we keep on learning...till our end...the day u stop learning...u finished... there is a very fine line between sane and insane.....evry human is first....there is no last....and at last...experience...is something to be shared...not demanded...wat r u going through...will make u a better person...not a perfect though...bcos nobody is perfect...mahaadeva
nice comments mahadevaaaa... thanks for commenting.. really nice comments!!!
i have jst shared sum of my experiece in life....
cheers
it seems when a person is old he himself is a library.....keep up the good work.
this is a different take on life from u/.........but since knowing u so closely it feels great dat away from home u r trying to find d meaning of ur existance in dis BIG BAD WORLD....
kudos!! mate kudos!! wat a blog... proud to know dat u really utilised ur job at dat library u wer doin.... jokes apart... the concept is stunning!! jus come bak successfully mate.... life is bundle of all emotions... i bet ur feeling them all... good to see ur thoughts so personified!!! pat on ur back from me man... cheers...!!
D best teacher is always 'LIFE', dey say. N it ain't fair 4 all. D best way 2 deal is again as ppl say 'Live today as if there's no tomorrow'. I need not say much coz I believe U knw it d best way. As 4 ur blog, I was surprised initially coz I neva thgt Nikhil can get so serious abt stuffs, bt good 2 knw that you are in fact. Keep d flow coming, I knw der is lot to talk abt....
The best gift that anybody can get is ONE's LIFE. God gives us everything that we ask for. What we have today are those which we once asked for. Now this explanation is for "unfair world" or "big bad world".
This world isn't bad or unfair. Its the perception of reality. We have good or bad or unfair experience because of which we become better a person.
The most beautiful moment or thing that one can have is "LIFE" and its never unfair, good , bad or anything... its just filled with lot of beautiful moments which makes it very special.
Nikhil it feels good when we are nostalgic but I would always want u to be in present neither past nor future.
Chote you have a Cheerful personality don't spoil it yar going towards philosophy. So now onwards you will share jokes, P.J's and other funny stuffs rather than serious life issues.
Don't take my comments in a wrong sense but i feel that as you were never in a negative mood, same continues in future and you stay positively happy for eternity.
Stay away from all such philosophical serious stuffs about life. Why do u think about life coz
however whatever you are doing today is weaving you life and tomorrow its history.
All I mean is that you weave your today in such a way that you never have to think about it, in case there is something wrong then boss you need to accept that we also need variety not all good things are acceptable and liked by each one of us.
Keep Smiling / Vijay
Nicely written niks...
I really liked d way u started it... n liked almost everything...
So now u r in the lucky few who have understood the true purpose of life... well life is always a leaarning experience.. hop u've lots of good ones.. The present is a gift thats y it is called 'present'.. So enjoy it...
Keep Writing...Take care
hey nikk,,
nice observation...sum of wich r commn!!!..
bot back sum really nice memories!!!
keep writin!!!
take care..m think positive!!
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